By Jeffe Kennedy
I've worked with a number of editors over the years. Many of them were one-night stands - especially back in my younger days, when I wrote mainly essays and played the magazine market. While I mostly enjoyed those passing encounters - though a few were blind dates that I couldn't wait to put behind me - I've discovered the joys of the long-term relationship.
I'm in a monogamous three-way these days. I work with two editors on my novels and I'm faithful to them. At least for the time being. One, Deb Nemeth, my Carina Press editor, I've been with since 2011. We just completed the Covenant of Thorns trilogy with Rogue's Paradise. And we are putting to bed the eighth book we've worked on together. I won't pretend it's always been hearts and flowers. The beginning wasn't a honeymoon. She put me through two revise and resubmits, made me work to win her heart. Now we're committed to each other with legal contracts. We've learned to work through the rough times, to remember to add compliments along with criticism, to take some time away before disagreeing.
I admit I felt a little guilty when I started seeing another editor, too. I didn't want Deb to feel slighted or that she wasn't enough for me. I needed to branch out, be with other publishers. Fortunately she understood that and now I've been with my Kensington editor, Peter Senftleben, for two years now. He's a different editor than Deb is, which brings stimulating variety to my life. He has his own quirks I've learned to accommodate and he mine. We're working on our fourth book together and each time just gets better.
It's not always easy, juggling two marriages like this. I sometimes have to ask - with some chagrin - if they're the one who prefers I just accept line edits in Track Changes or to comment them out. They know about each other and, when I see them respond to the other's tweets, I often find myself smiling at the warm feeling that inspires. I don't think they talk about me, but I wouldn't mind if they did. After all, it's only fair.
I like having these two people as partners in my publishing life. They shore me up and keep me honest. It feels good to me to be part of a family. And it occurs to me that self-publishing with its wealth of possibilities - which I've taken advantage of with some of my back list - is a lot like single parenting. Sure you can hire help, much like a single parent can get day care, and there's a lot more freedom, but it's a lot of work, too. I really admire the people who can carry it off, like my best friend and crit partner, for example.
But I do think this is something that writers should factor in when considering whether to go indie. For me, having this publishing family means a great deal. It's worth it to me to sacrifice some independence and financial gain to have it. I know not everyone needs that. At this time in my live, however, I know I do.