So. Here we are, six months into the “New Year.” How are your writing resolutions going? Are you getting 2,000, or 10,000, or whatever daily word counts you aspired to complete? Me either.
Have you finished that first novel and started in on your second? I’m right with you on missing that one too.
In fact, like 92% of the people who make resolutions, I have failed to meet my 2016 reading and writing goals.
And the start of my year hasn’t been all that much to celebrate either. I entered two writing contests only to fail making it past the first round of judging. I had one of those decade birthdays, and sometimes I feel every minute of how ancient my bones have become. Just lock me up in the museum and throw away the key. And while I started and love a new job, guess what that does to my writing time. Anybody have cheese to go with my wine-ing? Hearts bleeding peanut butter yet?
To me, there are always clouds for the silver linings in a writer’s life. We work alone, and are sometimes lonely. We’re introverted in an extrovert world. We’re creative in a nuts and bolts kind of society. If I focus hard enough, there are always things that give me the excuses for feeling bad, procrastinating too much, and generally leave me asking why I want to be a writer. Hint: if you’re in it for the big bucks, there are a whole lot of other ways to get that goal accomplished.
Then, for me, this past month happened and I have to push those gloomy clouds back. The silver linings refuse to stay closeted.
Someone told me that they liked my work. Liked. My. Work. Really?
In fact, this generous person said, “I just wanted to tell you how much I loved your book! I couldn’t put it down and finished it in two days.” This from a total stranger to me. Well shut my mouth and give me a keyboard. I think I can try this writing thing again.
And then a friend said to me, “My mom adores your books and wants to know when the next one is coming out.” For the first time in months, the question, “how’s the writing?” hasn’t left me feeling guilty and defeated. My friend’s face shone with being able to share this great review, and we’re talking about writing a short story just for mom for Christmas.
And this past Tuesday, Lindsay Woods of KRFC Radio in Fort Collins, replayed an interview she did with me a year ago on her Tuesday Talk Show. What an ego boost! One full hour with no commercials (KRFC is a nonprofit organization), talking about a favorite subject—books and writing. Lindsay read out loud some of the reviews both writer friends and professional reviewers gave my latest book. I had forgotten them long ago.
I have a clipping file of reviews, and when I take the time to look through them, I always feel energized for writing projects. I also like Aaron Ritchey’s advice from yesterday’s column, “write every day, as much as you can.” I like how there isn’t a specific number of words. Just write.
I also like Mary Gillgannon’s notion that writing takes energy. She’s right. Exercise is important. So is filling the spiritual well as she talks about.
So here’s my tip of the day – keep your compliments. Whether or not you’re published, or a contest winner, you receive writing compliments from time to time. Save that critique group note that says you’ve mastered the use of ellipses. Hold onto the thank you note that says it’s no wonder you’re a writer; your last letter home was terrific. Cherish the rejection that’s accompanied with a personal note from an agent or editor.
I have a bright blue binder where I keep print out of reviews – on friends’ blogs, from the press, notes from loved ones. Now I know where I need to look to build the kind of positive energy that makes writing what it was always meant to be – a joy.
Hey! I just realized the New Year is only 6 months old – I can get some writing done. Hope you do too.
Wishing you a positively creative day.