A few of your regular RMFW Blog contributors have submitted their best advice for an enjoyable and educational conference experience. These suggestions work for any conference, of course, but will be especially meaningful for those who plan to attend the Rocky Mountain Fiction Writers Colorado Gold Conference September 5-7 at the Westin in Westminster.
Feel free to add your own tips in the comment section.
1. Talking to writers at a conference is easier than talking to "normal" people, because you can drop the small talk. If you don't know what to say, just ask, "So what are you writing?" Even shy writers are generally happy to start telling you about their latest project, and this helps to break the ice.
2. Have a business card or bookmark you can pass out with your name, email address, and social media contacts. This allows people you connect with at the con to find you again later. You can get inexpensive business cards at Moo.com or Vistaprint, or even make some yourself and print them on cardstock. Definitely worth the time.
3. Agents and editors are people. They don't like to be spammed any more than you do, but they are looking for the next wonderful book and it might just be yours. Treat them with respect and let your enthusiasm shine through.
1. Don't necessarily attend all the same workshops/classes as all your friends. Split up, then come together later and share notes.
2. The hospitality suite is great, but explore, there are all sorts of impromptu gatherings all over the place all weekend.
3. Listen more than you speak. You'll overhear so much more that way and learn all sorts of interesting things.
4. Don't go to bed early - stay up past your bed time. Some of the best conversations come after 1am and everyone is well lubricated.
5. When you make a new friend, get their "deets" right away, so you can stay in touch. You will forget later.
1. There is no "one true way" to do things. What the seminar speaker is telling you works for him/her. Take what works for YOU from the workshop and use that.
2. Sometimes you have to hear a concept several times or phrased in different ways before it sinks in and is useful for you.
3. Stop when you get overwhelmed.
1. Set specific, and reachable, personal goals. When I go to a conference, I try to meet (and remember) three new people every day. I used to feel shy about approaching strangers and introducing myself, but that became much easier when I replaced “Meet lots of people” with “Meet three new authors every day of the conference.” I usually end up meeting many more, but focusing on initiating three conversations made the goal more personal and reachable.
Don’t over-schedule in advance, particularly regarding panels and workshops. Leave room to talk to people and go to panels and workshops as the opportunities arise. Connecting with other people is the one part of the conference you won’t be able to replicate some other way.
Please come back on Friday for Part II of Tips for Conference Goers, Especially First Timers, featuring Liesa Malik, Pam Nowak, and Katriena Knights, and Jeanne Stein.